A delicacy, elegance, or refinement of living rather than a necessity

Aah got your attention can you figure out the word that I have just given the official definition for ???
OK.. alright..the word is LUXURY.  A bad word these day"s my ASS.. what is wrong with luxury why the guilt.  Unless you are not feeding your chitlins to buy the newest LV why guilt.  We need not feel guilty  for desiring refinements of living why live.  I disagree somewhat with Webster's definition a little LUXURY is necessity...

Dawn